Canda Childers Kessler

1947 ∼ 2010

Canda Childers Kessler

Canda Childers Kessler lost her courageous twenty month battle with brain cancer August 15, 2010. She died at her home with her husband by her side. She faced her disease and treatments with optimism, strength, determination and faith. Her concerns during her illness were for others, especially her husband, Michael. He is left to cherish her memory along with her mother, Jane Childers; brother, Terry Childers and wife, Susan; niece, Courtney Dean and husband, Orrin; nephew, Justin Childers and wife, Jeanna; great niece and nephew, Karis and Noah Childers and her mother-in-law, Doris Kessler. She is preceded in death by her father, JC Childers.

Canda was born April 9, 1947 in Orange, TX to Jane and JC Childers. She graduated from Stark High School in 1965, and was a duchess in the Neches River Festival that same year. Canda attended LSU in Baton Rouge where she was a member of Zeta Tau Alpha sorority. After obtaining her degree in merchandising, Michael and Canda married June 14, 1969. Canda worked as a research assistant at LSU School of Medicine and as a special education teacher at St. Michael's in New Orleans while Mike attended medical school and trained in internal medicine at Charity Hospital. They moved to Orange in 1976 where Canda was Mike's office manager in his private practice. Seven years later she attended the University of Houston taking classes in architectural design while Mike trained to become a pathologist. The couple moved to Beaumont in 1988, and became members of St. Mark's Episcopal Church.

Canda was very active in volunteer work and various organizations including the Symphony of Southeast Texas, the Treasure House at St. Mark's, Julie Roger's Gift of Life, Mary Howell Garden Club, and Beautify Beaumont. She was an avid reader, loved the arts, travel, hiking and most of all enjoyed intimate dinners with friends.

The family is grateful to the loving and devoted care given to Canda by Niki Waldrep, LVN, and Michelle Anderson. Sydney Cruse, RN, Libby Taylor, Wanda Johnson, Tonya Minor and Amanda Esclovon eased her journey with affection and humor. Her husband is especially thankful to the 5th floor inpatient rehabilitation staff at Baptist Hospital Beaumont for their compassion and professionalism during Canda's stay. Special thanks also are extended to Dr.'s Robert Birdwell, Senthilkumar, George Thomas, Lois Miller, Michael Ong, Steve Cherwaty, Clyde Myers, John Henderson, Daniel Lehane, and Morris Groves at MD Anderson Cancer Center. Professional Health Care Hospice provided much comfort and support for both Canda and Mike during Canda's final days. Her husband is indebted to Canda's many friends who visited, called, provided meals, sat during long surgeries and hospital stays, wrote to her, and most of all, loved her.

A gathering of family and friends will be Tuesday, August 17, 2010, from 6-8:00 p.m. at Claybar Kelley-Watkins Funeral Home.

Funeral Services will be at 11:00 a.m., Wednesday, August 18, 2010, at St. Mark's Episcopal Church. Procession will follow afterwards to Haven of Rest Crematory in Bridge City.

If desired, contributions would be welcome in lieu of flowers to Professional Health Care Hospice, the Chaplain's Fund at Baptist Hospital of Southeast Texas, St. Mark's Episcopal Church, Julie Roger's Gift of Life, or a charity of one's choice.

Condolences

Anonymous August 20, 2010
Dear Mike, I am so sorry that you've lost your wonderful and beautiful Canda. We had so much fun with you on that Turkey & Egypt caper! I'm glad that Dotty became such a good friend. Please know you all have my prayers and deepest sympathy. ##imported-begin##Liz Dornberger##imported-end##
Anonymous August 18, 2010
I am so sorry I could not come to be with you at this time, but please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. Psalm 34:18##imported-begin##Nancy Gay##imported-end##
Anonymous August 18, 2010
you and your family are in my prayers In God's Grace and Peace Carolyn##imported-begin##Carolyn McCook##imported-end##
Anonymous August 17, 2010
I am saddened at the loss of Canda. May the Father bring you, dear family, deep comfort and fill the great void in your lives as only He can! "God is our refuge and strength, always ready to help in times of trouble" Psalm 46 Love, Kermit Jr.##imported-begin##Kermit Tandberg##imported-end##
Anonymous August 17, 2010
Dr. Kessler I wanted to let you know that you and Ms. Canda have stayed in my prayers. I am sorry for the pain that you are feeling at this time. I hope that you will take comfort in all of the love and prayers that are being sent your way. She was an am##imported-begin##Alexis Walters##imported-end##
Anonymous August 17, 2010
Dear Mike, We offer our deepest condolences to you. You were very dedicated to each other and we know you will miss her. I am reminded of the two of you most often when we visit Celanie. In her living room is the picture taken of us during our trip to th##imported-begin##Babson and Tish Fresh##imported-end##
Anonymous August 17, 2010
At this time, my thoughts and prayers are with you and the memory of Canda. Your old friend, Frank "There are things we don't want to happen but have to accept and people we can't live without but have to let go. Death leaves a heartache no ##imported-begin##Frank Wilson##imported-end##
Anonymous August 17, 2010
Dr. Kessler, I am so sorry for your loss. Canda was an amazing person. I watched her fight cancer with such courage, faith, and optimism. She was one of the first persons I met when I moved to Beaumont, and she welcomed me with open arms. Her spiri##imported-begin##Brian Hampton##imported-end##
Anonymous August 17, 2010
Mike, Mrs. Childers & Terry: Upon moving back to Orange in 1953, my mother made certain that I had opportunity to make "new" friends...mostly children of her friends...and Canda was my FIRST friend of and from Orange we were about 6 or 7 yrs. old! I rem##imported-begin##Robert ##imported-end##
Anonymous August 16, 2010
Dr. Kessler, Thomas and I are thinking of you often. Our prayers are with you during this difficult time. Love, Misti##imported-begin##Misti Neale##imported-end##
Anonymous August 16, 2010
Dr. Kessler, Ronnie and I are keeping you in our prayers during this difficult time. Canda was such a sweet person and will be dearly missed. May the sorrow you feel in your heart lighten by the love that surrounds you. No doubt, Canda is watching##imported-begin##Shannon and Ronnie Crane##imported-end##
Anonymous August 16, 2010
Mike, Jane and Terry, The Drake's hearts pour love and affection upon your family at this time. A lifetime of friendship truely bonds the souls together and in times of need, the bonds grow tight around the individual hearts making them one. Our Since##imported-begin##Tomalee, Vicki, Betty and Earl Drake##imported-end##
Anonymous August 16, 2010
I only met Mrs. Canda once, and I will always remember the pride you had in your eyes when you introduced her to me. The love you two shared will always be with you. Remember the good times, I know she would want that for you. May God hold you in his lovi##imported-begin##Donna ##imported-end##
Anonymous August 16, 2010
Dr. Kessler, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.It is difficult to know what to say to comfort you, but know in your heart that we love you.##imported-begin##Julia Churchwell##imported-end##
Anonymous August 16, 2010
Dr Kessler, I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. I know this is a difficult time for you. Mrs Canda will be greatly missed and remembered for her wonderful smile and the joy she brought to everyone around her. I pray that you will find comfort a##imported-begin##Crystal Kemp##imported-end##
Anonymous August 16, 2010
Mike, I can only imagine how painful and difficult this time is for you. My thoughts and hopes are with you. Chuck##imported-begin##Charles Hill##imported-end##
Anonymous August 16, 2010
Dear Mike I am so sorry for the lost of Canda. It was a tough battle that the two of you fought courageously. You will both be in our prayers and thoughts. Please let me know if I can do anything. You know you are always welcome to visit up here in Chica##imported-begin##Joe and Cathy Bremer##imported-end##
Anonymous August 16, 2010
I just got word from a friend in Beaumont about Candace. What can I say Mike, but I am so, so sorry. I know what you both have been through and my heart aches deeply for you. I have never forgotten the kindness and caring you gave when Mickey was sick. I ##imported-begin##Marguerite Smith##imported-end##
Anonymous August 16, 2010
Michael, Canda was a very special lady and we will miss her. Please know you are in our thoughts and our prayers. We will see you tomorrow at visitation. God bless you, Karen and Arnold Manske##imported-begin##Karen & Arnold Manske##imported-end##
Anonymous August 16, 2010
Dear Mike, Jean and I both send our condolences along with our prayers and know that our belief in God gets us through periods like this. It seems like God always wants his most perfect angels to return to him first. Jean and I have been married 45 yea##imported-begin##Steve & Jean Butaud##imported-end##
Anonymous August 15, 2010
Mike, Jane and Terry, My heart goes out to you as I can only imagine the sorrow you are feeling at this time. I will always remember Canda as someone who understood what being a friend means. My God Bless all of you. Sam##imported-begin##Sam##imported-end##
Anonymous August 15, 2010
God's blessings to your family.##imported-begin##Ellen Booth##imported-end##
Anonymous August 15, 2010
We would like to express our condolences to Jane, Mike, Terry and Susan and we will continue to keep all of you in our prayers.##imported-begin##Peter & Karen Edwards##imported-end##
Anonymous August 15, 2010
I just wanted to send my condolences for your loss. I haven't seen Canda since high school but remember a sweet, fun,wonderful person. I know the loss will be hard to handle but my thoughts and prayers will be with the family.##imported-begin##Faith McInnis Watts##imported-end##
Anonymous August 15, 2010
Canda, We met I think at Carol's apt. on Braeswood Blvd. in Houston. You and Mike and I had braces as adults at the same time. We were having peach schnaaps or something awful while watching the Derby and it was a moment to be remembered. I was so for##imported-begin##Beth Qualia##imported-end##
Anonymous August 15, 2010
Dr.Kessler and Family... My heart goes out to you all. Mrs.Canda Kessler was a wonderful, loveing and sweet woman. When she came by the office several times before her health started to take over you would ask her "How are you feeling Mrs.Canda?" She wou##imported-begin##Tina Johnson##imported-end##