Mabel Wingate Lawrence

1923 ∼ 2009

Mabel Wingate Lawrence

Mabel Wingate Lawrence of Orange, Texas died on April 24, 2009 at home surrounded by family after a lengthy illness with congestive heart failure. She was 86. Her last words were prayers to the Divine Mercy of Jesus and the Blessed Mother, a devotion she has held her entire life. Mabel was born on March 2, 1923 in Orange, Texas to Claude and Lumea Bonin Wingate. A wonderful daughter, sister, wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother and friend, she was loved by everyone who knew her. Well-liked and fun-loving, she could lift one's spirits without even trying because of her sincere smile. Her sterling character stood principal to her person, as did her kind and gentle humor and soft-spoken manner. She had a crystalline memory of a lifetime of experiences from which she told stories to the delight of family and friends.

Mabel was one of eight children and a lifelong resident of Orange for all but a few years. She was educated at St. Mary's Catholic School in Orange, Texas, the Incarnate Word Academy in Houston, Texas, and she graduated from Orange High School where she tied for the spot of valedictorian. She was named Who's Who in Texas for first place trophies in Shorthand, Typing and Latin at the state level. She was also awarded the Annual Voice of Democracy contest. She was bestowed the American Legion Award for the highest average of the year for all the schools in Houston, Texas, both catholic and public, while attending the Incarnate Word Academy. Later in life, at age 62, she attended Lamar University to study literature, winning first place in all of the categories of poetry, short-story, and art.

After high school, she married the love of her life, Dewey Dee "Buck" Lawrence, Jr. She gave up her college scholarship to be a wife and mom to fifteen children, a grandmother to fifty-two; and a great-grandmother to thirty. She had 97 direct descendants with four more expected arrivals; this will bring Mabel and her husband's direct descendants to a total of 101. Mabel loved her family and was very proud that she and her husband together reared fifteen children in the Catholic Church and schools teaching them to excel. Mrs. Lawrence was a long-time member of St. Mary's Catholic Church and a member of the Altar Society as well as the Legion of Mary. She devoted many volunteer hours creating art paintings for school plays. She spent months reconditioning a statue of Christ for a prayer garden at St. Mary's Catholic Church.

Mabel was an accomplished artist and writer and recently finished three books, "Every Dog Needs a Boy"; "St. Luke"; and "My Dear Theopolis." At the age of ten, Mabel won a National Young Writer's Contest entitled "The Failed Assassination of Franklin D. Roosevelt." She also had several short stories and poems published in magazines.

Next to her love of God, she loved her family, working outdoors, writing, painting, and traveling. Her happiest times were spent cooking huge meals for her family and the family time together with them. No invitation was needed because her home and kitchen were always open to everyone. Every child in the neighborhood called her house "Home!" She would not sit until everyone was eating. She was famous within her family for her "scrambled egg sandwiches with buttery toast." And, she was the best gravy maker in Texas.

She continued her devotion to God her entire life, never missing Sunday Mass until she became too ill. She treasured that Tibby Mazzola and Neat Paul, life-long church friends, assisted her with her devotion by bringing communion to her at home. She traveled to the Holy Land and made several trips to Europe, including a trip to Italy with many of her children and grandchildren where she had a private audience with Pope John Paul II. She treasured her meeting with Mother Theresa in Pennsylvania in 1976. Her gardening always included statues indicative of her religious devotion. During the latter part of her illness, she happily thanked God for her eyes and ears as she listened to the Mass and the Rosary on television every day, sometimes twice a day. She thanked God for her hands as she wrote inscriptions and drew pictures of her children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren as well as painting religious pictures.

She is preceded in death by her husband of forty-two years at the time he died in 1984; sons Dr. Darrell Dennis Lawrence and Timothy Gerard Lawrence who died in 1974; granddaughter Rebecca Lawrence; grandson, Aaron Calvert; Mabel's parents, Claude and Lumea Bonin Wingate; sisters Julia Wingate Bacom and Barbara Wingate Marshall; and, brothers Lance and Cecil Wingate; and Christian Brother Lucian Wingate. Those left to cherish her memory are thirteen children; Dr. Michael and Susan Lawrence of Benbrook, Texas; Dr. Patrick and O'Breann Lawrence of Tumacacori, Arizona; Maureen and Mike Shupp of Orange; Roger and Sherree Lawrence of Westcliffe, Colorado Roger is currently in Iraq; Eileen Romano of Orange; Christal and Phil Finck of Des Moines, Iowa; Darlene and Will Jaques of West Des Moines, Iowa; Marian and Stanley Kinchen of Ponchatoula, Louisiana; Theresa Fennessey of Houston; Kevin and Catherine Lawrence of Smithville; Maribeth and Mitts Ray of Round Rock; C.B. and Karen Lawrence of Round Rock; and Stephen Lawrence of Austin. She is also survived by fifty grandchildren: Stacy Cook of Orange; Jimmie Chris and Vanessa Cook of Kingwood; Dr. Michael C. and Carrie Lawrence of Grand Prairie; Darrell Dwain and Robyn Lawrence of Katy; Dr. Ginger Lawrence Shriver of Longmont, Colorado; Gary Rhodes of Nederland; Jeremy and Lisa Calvert of Burnet; Jodi and Keith Spiers of Saltillo, Mississippi; Michelle and Darren Iceton of The Woodlands; Melanie Adair of Dallas; Dianna Lawrence of Vista, California; Timothy Cook of Orange; Erika Watson of Des Moines, Iowa: Eva and James Olive of Goose Creek, South Carolina; Nicholas and Blythe Ray of Round Rock; Kevin Michael and Kristen Lawrence of Texas City; Patrick Nicholas Lawrence, Jr. of Los Angeles, California; Michael Romano of Orange; Chad Calvert of Arlington; Robin Kinchen of New Orleans, Louisiana; Alexander and Jennifer Lawrence of Baltimore, Maryland; Jonathan Ray of Belton; Maria Brooks of Austin; Wendy and Tony Savarino of Ponchatoula, Louisiana; Derrick and Tiffany Lawrence of LaPorte; Dustin Brooks of Houston; Benjamin and Moshell Ray of Round Rock; John Romano of Dallas; Corey Calvert of Arlington; Andrea Lawrence of Austin; Christopher Roberts of Houston; Jennifer Lawrence of Dallas; Stephanie McCurley of Norman, Oklahoma; Angela Lawrence of Orange; Travis Lawrence of Round Rock; Lumea Jaques of West Des Moines, Iowa; twins Michael and Morgan Shupp of Orange; Michael H. Lawrence of Benbrook; Darrell T. Lawrence of Orange; Ashley Lawrence of Round Rock; Patrick D. Lawrence of Round Rock; Remington Jaques of West Des Moines, Iowa; Elizabeth Lawrence of Orange; Zachary Ray of Round Rock; Jesse, Adam and Eva Lawrence of Tumacacori, Arizona; Daniel and Joseph Lawrence of Orange.

She is survived by thirty great grandchildren: Ashley, Dena, and Jessica Lawrence of Katy; Brendon Wells, and Kaleb and Jacob Spiers of Saltillo, Mississippi; Justin and Hannah Cook of Kingwood; Alyssa, Destiny, and Lindsey Watson, and twins Jessica and Natalie Watson of Des Moinies, Iowa: Katherine Olive of Goose Creek, South Carolina; Ashton and Kyan Lawrence of San Diego, California; Caitlyn and Austin Calvert of Burnet; Brynn Shriver of Longmont, Colorado; Layla and Luke Lawrence of Texas City; Madison and Jake Lawrence of Grand Prairie; Keegan Iceton of The Woodlands; Alex Edge and Logan McCurley of Norman, Oklahoma; Bailey Ray of Round Rock; Madison Hebert of Orange; Lilly Leonard of Austin; and, Isaac Lawrence of Baltimore, Maryland.

She is also survived by her brothers, Roy and Nick Wingate, and their wives Crystal and Joan Wingate, of Orange; half-sister Edith Pratt of Orange; brother-in-law James Marshall of Orange; sisters-in-law Florence Wingate of Beaumont and June Wingate of Orange; and three generations of numerous nieces and nephews. She will be missed by her dear cousin and friend, Dorothy Lou Nance.

She was the proud aunt of nieces Lumea, Melanie, Jennifer and Jade Marshall her other daughters; and, her nieces Betty, Polly, Marie, Nancy, and Patsy Wingate; and Natalie, Susan, Vicky, Linda, Mary, Cecilia, Julie, Barbara, and Olivia Wingate; and, nephews, Nick Wingate, Jr., Dr. Charles "Chuck" Wingate, Hugh, Gary and Bradley Bacom, and Andrew, Al, Matt, Quentin, Philip, Peter, Clayton, Ethan, and Spencer Wingate. She was the loving friend of Homer and Becky Stark since elementary school, who kept contact with her during her illness, and until their deaths; and, she cherished her lifelong friendship since childhood with Father Bernard Murray.

All members of the Lawrence family wish to express their gratitude to all the doctors and nurses at Memorial Herman Baptist Hospital-Orange for their wonderful care of Mabel over the years. A special thanks is given to Dr. William M. Rutledge, who Mabel considered part of her family, for his loving care and constant smile. A warm note of gratitude is given to Dr. Miguel Castellanos for his compassionate care. We also wish to thank Odyssey Hospice for their months of support and care.

Visitation will be at 5:00 P.M., a eulogy at 7:00 P.M., and a Rosary recited at 8:00 P.M. at Claybar Funeral Home on Monday, April 27, 2009. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 10:00A.M. on Tuesday, April 28, 2009 at St. Mary's Catholic Church in Orange. Officiating will be Reverend Joseph Daleo, pastor of St. Mary's Church. Burial will follow in St. Mary's Catholic Cemetery. The family and funeral cortege will be walking behind Mabel's coffin on Tuesday morning at 8:30 A.M. from Claybar Funeral Home to St. Mary's Catholic Church to honor Mabel.

Serving as pallbearers will be Michael Haltom Lawrence, Michael Christopher Lawrence, Jimmie Chris Cook II, Darrell Dwain Lawrence, Michael Angelo Romano, Jeremy Shane Calvert, Remington Jaques, Keith Spiers, Dustin Brooks, Kevin Michael Lawrence, Nicholas Ray, Travis Lawrence, and Darrell Timothy Lawrence. Honorary pallbearers will be her son-in-laws, Stanley Kinchen, Mitts Ray, Mike Shupp, Will Jaques, and Phil Finck; and friends Reverend Bernard Murray, Reverend Francis Conroy and Christian Brother Martin Fenerty.

All of the lives whom Mabel Lawrence touched have been greatly changed. The Lawrence family knows that we will forever miss our mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother. We know that our "little tower of strength" and the "wind beneath our wings" will be gone, but she will live on in each of us……her legacies. She was our hero.

Condolences

Anonymous October 7, 2009
I miss Bamaw. She always knew how to cheer a person up. Those 10 years I spent living with her, I will never forget. I love you bamaw.##imported-begin##Elizabeth ##imported-end##
Anonymous May 10, 2009
This poem was written by mom for all of her children one Christmas with pictures that she presented to us. ------------------------------------ When You Think of Me When you look at my pictures, And think of me each day, Know that I'll be with you,##imported-begin##Michael L. Lawrence##imported-end##
Anonymous May 7, 2009
Mammaw~ An extraordinary woman whose love and giving of herself was endless! What she accomplished in this one life time would take even the hardiest of us at least 10! Humble, patient, nurturing, artistic, God-loving….These are the beautiful ##imported-begin##Dianna Lawrence##imported-end##
Anonymous May 5, 2009
Dear Marian & Stan, & Lawrence Family, I am so sorry for your loss. I was so shocked to hear the news of your mother. Your mother was a very special person and I know she was loved by so many. I remember meeting her once when she had come to visit you ##imported-begin##Renee Mangano##imported-end##
Anonymous May 4, 2009
Mom, I love you because.... you married Daddy you loved me when I couldn't love myself you taught me to pray you baptized me Catholic You taught me to love God You taught me to be happy in the service of others you gave me 14 wonderful siblings ##imported-begin##Darlene Lawrence##imported-end##
Anonymous April 30, 2009
Beverly Matsoukas came by to say that Mabel had died. I would like to have been at the funeral but it was not enough time to satisfy the obligations of my schedule. I regret the loss of Mabel, she was a great matriarch of a wonderful family. She had a str##imported-begin##Father Manger##imported-end##
Anonymous April 30, 2009
To the Lawrence Family, I send my sympathy for the recent loss of your dear mother. I was in Marian's class at St. Mary's and Stark after St. Mary's closed. You all are in my prayers. Your mother was a remarkable woman who will be missed by many.##imported-begin##Regina Brown Dennis##imported-end##
Anonymous April 30, 2009
Maureen, I watched while you and your husband and children took care of your mom for the last four years, especially hospice in your home for the last 4 1/2 months. I know that it was difficult with many nights of lost sleep. Your mom will shower her##imported-begin##Mary Jones##imported-end##
Anonymous April 28, 2009
Raymond, Misty, Ashlyn, & Gage Vaughn send our condolences to the family of Mrs. Mable. We have the great pleasure in knowing her doughter Mrs. Marian Kention and family. We love you Aunt Marian and we will keep you and your family in our prayers. Love##imported-begin##Raymond Vaughn##imported-end##
Anonymous April 28, 2009
Dear Maureen, Marion, brothers and sisters and family, I met most of you over 15 years ago at your Mom's house. I remember this tiny woman buzzing around the kitchen and how she made me feel just like one of her kids. That was an amazing experience, t##imported-begin##Jan Rahm##imported-end##
Anonymous April 27, 2009
Ms Mabel's daughter Marian and her husband Stan have been our dearest friends for 35 years. We have had the pleasure of Ms Mabel's company on several occasions and she trulty was a remarkable woman. We wish to extend our sincere prayers and condolensces t##imported-begin##Rickey & Ruth Vaughn##imported-end##
Anonymous April 27, 2009
May the Lord be with you all at this, your time of grief. Our hearts and prayers are with you in rememberance of a fine lady. Cpl. Randy Rhodes Baytown Police Department##imported-begin##Cpl. Randy Rhodes##imported-end##
Anonymous April 27, 2009
To Patrick and all the Lawrence family: My sincere condolences to all of you. Your mom was a very special lady in every way. What a legacy she has left you! My thoughts and prayers are with you. Sincerely, Janice Classmate of Patrick##imported-begin##Janice White Ondrusek##imported-end##
Anonymous April 27, 2009
On behalf of the Groves Police Officer's Association, I would like to express our sincere condolences to the Lawrence family for your loss. I pray God grants you all peace and strength as you go through this difficult time.##imported-begin##Kirk Rice##imported-end##
Anonymous April 27, 2009
Went to St Mary,s and was a class mate of her son Patrick. I and my family were always inspired by the wonderful job of parenting and Chrisian example she exhibited her whole life.##imported-begin##Tommy Riedmueller##imported-end##
Anonymous April 27, 2009
Maureeen, My deepest sympathy for you in the loss of your Momma. It was so nice to see her before she passed and to feel her peaceful spirit. I know that this is an extremely difficult time for you, Mike and your children. I am here for you. Although I##imported-begin##Donna Johnson##imported-end##
Anonymous April 26, 2009
I attended English Lit classes with Mrs. Lawrence at Lamar University. I remember being so very inspired by her. I didn't know her well, but I reckon I learned more from her than any teacher I ever had there. Thank you for sharing her story so beautifully##imported-begin##Lori Wragg##imported-end##
Anonymous April 26, 2009
To all the Lawrence family, Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss. My parents,Jack and Natalie Bonnin, knew your parents well. They are all in heaven catching up and cooking!##imported-begin##Jane Bonnin Ketcham##imported-end##
Anonymous April 26, 2009
Dearest Maureen, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. I check the KOGT.com website everyday since I no longer live in Orangefield and when I saw the picture of your mother and her name in the obits I knew it had to be your ##imported-begin##Linda Granger Crawford##imported-end##
Anonymous April 26, 2009
When Larry and I saw that your mom had passed away we knew we had lost a great lady.Both of us were in Patrick's class for 12 yrs.,Class of 64, so we knew her during that time. After graduation & raising a family I began working at St. Mary's in numerous ##imported-begin##Rita & Larry Bourliea##imported-end##
Anonymous April 26, 2009
To the Lawrence Family: Our world stopped for a moment when we received word of your mother's passing. She was truly an inspiration to us, and a grand lady. We are sure Heaven stopped also to welcome your mother with all its majesty. We have no doub##imported-begin##Jennifer, Melanie, Lumea, Jade and Uncle James##imported-end##
Anonymous April 26, 2009
To all the Lawrence family I am sorry for the loss of your Mother. Luella Broussard Raymond's wife##imported-begin##Luella Broussard##imported-end##
Anonymous April 26, 2009
I was happy to offer the solom Mass for Aunt Mable and family today Apr 26, `09. I will continue to offer Masses for her children/decendants as was her request to me; for the intention that they would all remain strong defenders of the Catholic Church of##imported-begin##Andrew & Sheila Wingate##imported-end##
Anonymous April 26, 2009
You are greatly loved Bammaw, and will equally missed. Thank you for many wonderful memories. I for one will certianly miss your egg sandwiches. At least you are home now. Be at peace and fly to Jesus. :- I know that I will see you again one day.##imported-begin##Travis Lawrence##imported-end##
Anonymous April 25, 2009
We, her offspring, are so grateful to God for the time that he shared her with us!##imported-begin##Roger and Sherree Lawrence##imported-end##
Anonymous April 25, 2009
We are so sorry for your loss. Please let us know if you need anything. You will be in our thoughts and prayers. Love Tina, Cody, Isaac, Olivia and Gabriella Finch##imported-begin##Tina and Cody Finch##imported-end##
Anonymous April 25, 2009
Bammaw, You are free from your earthly burdens, and now have the best job in heaven; to be all of our guardian angel. We love you, and your memory will live on forever. Love, Jodi, Keith, Brendon, Kaleb, and Jacob##imported-begin##Jodi and Keith Spiers##imported-end##
Anonymous April 25, 2009
Our sincere condolences on the loss of a special person.##imported-begin##Mr. & Mrs. James K. Broussard & Family##imported-end##
Anonymous April 25, 2009
DEAR ROGER & LAWRENCE FAMILY, YOUR MOM WAS A WONDERFUL PERSON WHO WAS PROBABLY ONE OF THE MOST KIND AND CONSIDERATE OF ANIMALS,PLANTS & MANKIND. EVERYTHING SHE DONE WAS ALWAYS WITH LOVE AND DEDICATION. SURELY,SHE IS HEAVEN'S GAIN. I'LL ALWAYS PRAY FOR YO##imported-begin##jodi king##imported-end##
Anonymous April 25, 2009
Our families sincere condolences go out to all of the Lawrence family.##imported-begin##Kimberly Snider##imported-end##
Anonymous April 25, 2009
To My Wonderful Cousins: There are no words to express the great loss that will always be in my heart from your Mother's death. She was one of a kind, and can never be replaced. She and her sisters are now united for eternity. What a wonderful thought##imported-begin##Jade Marshall Gough##imported-end##
Anonymous April 24, 2009
I'll always miss those "Bama egg sandwiches" and her coffee and 10 spoons of sugar.##imported-begin##Nicholas Ray##imported-end##
Anonymous April 24, 2009
I used to love staying up late with Grandma and watching old movies! Ahh those were the good old days. At Grandma's house everyone always had so much fun because she would always spoil her grandkids rotten!: I love you Bammaw!##imported-begin##Eva, James and Katherine Olive##imported-end##
Anonymous April 24, 2009
I will forever and always miss when we would visit Orange countless times per year and have that warm sense of the wholesome feeling I'd get walking through that front door at Bammaw's and seeing everyone's faces. At any given moment, 6 or 7 people piled ##imported-begin##Patrick Lawrence##imported-end##